Social Skills Training -- A Logical Partner
and Precursor to Conflict Resolution

The wave of juvenile crime is on the increase. It has affected all segments of our society and every community across our nation. As indicated by a national legislator recently, the juvenile crime wave that we are now experiencing "is only the tip of the iceberg." Given the fact that today's juveniles are to become tomorrow's adult population, the question of national leadership and stability looms large. Learned behaviors and attitudes among this group will have a great impact on our society.

The premise upon which social skills training is based, is that violence and asocial behaviors are learned. As a result of our inability to manage conflicts constructively, asocial behaviors surface to our own personal detriment. Many of our societal institutions, neighborhood centers, the church, and other social service agencies along with the family, in many cases, no longer exert the influence once prevalent. Thus there is a need to fill the void created in the classroom at an early age. The importance of a strong preventive approach to problem resolution (social skills training) associated with continual reinforcement (conflict resolution) is essential.

Children can unlearn violent behavior in less than six months, according to a study of the effectiveness of an anti-violence program widely used in U.S. and Canadian schools.

Much of what has been done to address potential violence has been in a post-occurrence or reactive way through conflict resolution programs.

The findings in a recent Journal of the American Medical Association* help dispel the fatalistic notion that nothing can be done about rising violence among the nation's young people, government experts say.

Violence is a leading cause of death for Americans ages 15 to 24.

The study* involved 790 second- and third-graders at 12 schools in Washington state. About half were taught a violence prevention curriculum over an 18- to 20-week period, and their behavior at school was compared with that of students who did not take the course.

At the final evaluation, those who had taken the course exhibited about 30 fewer acts of aggression every day than children who did not. The participants also exhibited more than 800 more neutral or positive acts per class every day than children who did not take the course.

We propose that the concepts and methodology embodied in social skills training based on a 4-volume process curriculum entitled
Social Skills Lessons and Activities, grades Pre-K - 12,** are an essential, logical and complimentary precursor to conflict resolution and peer mediation training.

The justification for teaching social skills are strong. The schools' role can be a powerful one: helping children unlearn aggression and asocial behavior by substituting constructive messages about caring, sharing, empathy and cooperation.

"In general, the best strategies," Ronald G. Slaby says, "are those that developmentally and systematically begin to teach children alternative skills for solving problems that challenge superficial beliefs that many youngsters hold about the glories of violence and that teach thoughtful analysis to social problems rather than impulsive reactions." ***

The use of both proactive social skills training programs and more reactive conflict resolution programs are most effective when entire groups are involved either at the classroom or at the community level linked to the family and/or community organizations, or both.

A new volume which has been published in cooperation with Prentice-Hall Publishing, entitled
Violence Prevention Skills Lessons and Activities, grades 7 -12,**** further develops and enhances the social skills training model as it relates to potential violence brought about by the existence of drugs, alcohol, gangs, firearms and family disintegration.

As a non-profit organization committed to reducing the prevalence of violent acts and asocial behaviors in children and adults through education, we affirm the importance of early intervention with our youth through proactive means, by using significant numbers of "influencers," to bring about the necessary change in the course of events related to violence and social well-being in our nation.


* Grossman, David C. et al. Effectiveness of a Violence Prevention Curriculum Among Children in Elementary Schools." Journal of the American Medical Association. JAMA, Vol. 277, No. 20. May 28, 1997.

** Begun, Ruth Weltmann. Ready-to-Use Social Skills Lessons & Activities. Center for Applied Research in Education. West Nyack, New York: 1995 and 1996.

*** Slaby, Ronald G. "Roots of Violence. The American School Board Journal. March, 1994.

**** Begun, Ruth Weltmann, and Huml, Frank J. Ready-to-Use Violence Prevention Skills Lessons & Activities. Center for Applied Research in Education. West Nyack, New York: 1998.

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